Some points I wholly agree with, some I don't. But the writer is the expert. https://medium.com/@enagoski/im-sorry-you-re-lonely-but-it-s-not-my-job-to-help-you-the-science-of-incels-25bf83e2aaa0?fbclid=IwAR1jjpUaoiRZtX43n4_OF2yHmUutlOKDt5iqOQOlMt0DpW7BmIR7LOfdwOQ